I'm not a crusader. Much.
Aug. 20th, 2012 02:02 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
tuneinturnonI wanted to clarify: I'm not trying to make everyone in the world realize that non-monogamy is the natural order of things or anything like that.
Polyamory isn't the answer for everyone. Monogamy and asexuality and other models are perfectly valid options.
I'd just like people who are monogamous to have chosen monogamy because they've actually put some thought into it and not just because monogamy is the default.
Untold thousands of spouses cheat on their partners, so why not actually examine if you want to be monogamous if not, choose to be ethically non-monogamous?
Maybe I am a crusader, for a greater quantity of ethical behavior in the world, generally speaking.
Polyamory isn't the answer for everyone. Monogamy and asexuality and other models are perfectly valid options.
I'd just like people who are monogamous to have chosen monogamy because they've actually put some thought into it and not just because monogamy is the default.
Untold thousands of spouses cheat on their partners, so why not actually examine if you want to be monogamous if not, choose to be ethically non-monogamous?
Maybe I am a crusader, for a greater quantity of ethical behavior in the world, generally speaking.
