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- Got email from K (see a couple entries ago) asking if I'd be interested in seeing him ever again. How long ago was that post, and it took him this long to contact me? No, I'm not doing this shit.
- Starting my period so today's the last day I can sleep panties-free for a week. Ugh. Plus for no reason at all, when I bent, my right boob was suddenly in great pain. What'd I ever to do you, huh? Knock that shit off!

- There's a guy I have been trying to go out with for nearly 2 months now. He had a recurrence of colon cancer right when we were finally going to meet and was out of commission for at least a month. We were going to get together tomorrow but he had to cancel, doc wants to do colonoscopy Wednesday so he's got to drink the icky stuff and so on Tuesday. He likes to talk on the phone, which I hate, and when I begged off talking on the phone, he seemed really put out by it. When I asked if he was put out he said no, but I've just gotten the impression over time that he only wants to talk to me on the phone - and it's never sexy talk, it's not like phone sex or anything, it's just conversation (only he does most of the talking, another reason I'm not really into it) - and that's just not going to work for me. We've tentatively rescheduled for next week after my period is done.

- In the meantime, I'm not waiting for him. I'm making other plans with a perfectly nice fellow who has been more than patient, more than happy to wait and get together whenever. The antithesis of how most guys are. This fellow and I had to cancel our first meetup a couple times so we skyped instead & talked for a couple of hours, and we text occasionally. I look forward to meeting him in person. I am a bit worried based on something he said that I forget now that he might have exaggerated his actual experience with women (he's kind of a nerd, geek, what have you), so we'll see how it goes.

- Home front has been pretty quiet. Mostly all I do is work or try to forget about work. I'm trying to read more lately, nothing sexy though, just regular books.

That's all I can think of right now. I figured it was time for an update, though. Ciao!

Date: 2013-03-06 05:12 am (UTC)
gwydion: (No Angel)
From: [personal profile] gwydion
If you decide to go through with it with the geeky guy, remember it's always better to put an inexperienced man on the bottom. Otherwise they tend to squirt immediately. Go slow, and if he's too fast be reassuring and wait for the reload. Virgins and the virgin adjacent tend to be fast triggers generally and helping with the face saving is a good investment in future plesure.

Date: 2013-03-07 05:20 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
That is an excellent idea, should the situation arise. Last time I was with someone not-totally-inexperienced it was tough because he hasn't mastered the art of thrusting in sync with his partner. One of the more odd experiences I've had, expecting the same-old-same-old and getting a newbie instead. I'm not good at teaching them either, or I could have swarms (I like to think) of young bucks looking for cougars. But I find teaching exhausting. Maybe I should reconsider, though. Maybe I can find one to inspire me to explore new depths of depravity! Hmm.

Re: That was me...

Date: 2013-03-08 01:23 am (UTC)
gwydion: (No Angel)
From: [personal profile] gwydion
I broke in a lot of virgins back in the day. ;)

BTW, it's good advice for being with an experienced guy who's been flying solo a while too.


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